July 2021 - Sherwette

Resistance: The secret that stops you from doing what you really want to do

Self development July 29, 2021

If you are a creative person, chances are you have read “The Art of War” by Steven Pressfield. And if you didn’t, you might want to give it a read.

Art and war? How would these two come together?

The reason Steven Pressfield associated art with war, is that internal struggle. Yes, there is a war, but not with the external world. It’s from within. It’s from within us.

Steven Pressfield explains how resistance keeps us from doing the things that will elevate our souls.

“There’s a secret that real writers know that wannabe writers don’t know. And the secret is this: it’s not the writing that’s hard. It’s the sitting down to write—and what keeps us from sitting down is Resistance.”
-Steven Pressfield.

Do you focus on the future or in the present?

Self development July 14, 2021

We shall find the balance between seeing the “big picture” and being in the “present.”

It’s true. We could only be fueled by vision when it’s in sync with our values, which could only happen when we take a step back and look at the “big picture.”

But then, the “big picture” must be removed from our conscious. Because when we only focus on it, we tend to think about the different possible “future scenarios.” And we won’t be able to get ourselves off the thinking track of “What if? What could be? What’s possible?”

Focus and trust the process

Self development July 10, 2021

All the time in the world won’t help if you can’t focus, especially when you know what you can do when you are focused.

When we can’t focus, we tend to procrastinate and undermine our capabilities. What we used to do can’t be done anymore, and what was never attempted doesn’t even seem possible. We can’t get ourselves to do the work because we don’t “see” the point.

But there is something about showing up. You drag yourself, sit and say, “Hey, I am ready now,” only to find yourself numb. Then, you doubt yourself, “Is it even worth it to show up again?” You tell yourself, “Trust the process,” and show up again. The second time, you are still not focused, but you give it a try. It sucks, but it doesn’t matter. You tell yourself, “What is this sh*t?” Then, you pat yourself on the shoulder and say, “Hey, at least I am doing something.”